October 31, 2008

October 30, 2008

A Fierce Look


James brought me this picture and said decidedly, "This is what I want to be for Halloween." There aren't any griffon's online to buy. But I'm mean with a glue gun...here is the ferocious half lion, half eagle with a few remaining talons.

Where the Wild Things Are


The night Max wore his wolf suit and made mischief of one kind or another...

October 24, 2008

October 20, 2008

Orange


Orange is Chase's favorite color -- its not hard to see why!

September 30, 2008

Cry Me a River

I don't have one of those walk barefoot in the snow to school stories (uphill both ways of course). In fact, you can subtract snow from any of my childhood stories because that's what California will do for you. But I do have a limping with crutches in the rain story.

During a soccer tournament in high school, I tore a ligament in my ankle. I can still remember the sound and the mud that greeted my fall. I can remember how the swell overtook that bone that sticks out (maybe the fibula?)...anyhow, it was awful. Crutches are awful. Trying to fit into shoes with an air cast is also awful.

On one of the earlier days of my injury, I found myself without a ride. I waited and sulked and finally started walking, the not so terrible distance, home. But with each step I felt the pain and humiliation growing. The pain under my arms was growing as the crutches started rubbing and my ankle was throbbing. And I was feeling sorry for myself. So sorry, in fact, that I started crying. I would look at every car pass and think, why aren't they stopping to help me. I surely look pathetic enough. I started blaming each and every person and my pain and sorrow started to mix with anger. I had decided that it couldn't get any worse. And at that very moment, it started to rain. Rain. I had an umbrella, but it was useless as my hands were very much engaged in walking with the crutches. So, I had two choices: to keep going in the rain, or stop and stand with the umbrella. The martyr in me pushed me on.

I still was crying, but I was less angry and more resolved. I somehow accepted what was going on. And it was then that a friend drove by. Hannah, you may not remember, but I will never forget. In that moment, you were my salvation and hope all rolled into an Astro minivan.

~ ~ ~ ~

Last night, I heard that same pop. My ankle isn't as swollen, but it is the same one. My injury that won't go away. And as I was carried off the soccer field in tears, I couldn't help but remember what had happened Junior year so long ago. My drive home was filled with some of the same reactions, but decidedly more of the acceptance. I stopped holding on to the "what-ifs" and started thinking about the "what next's."

I have noticed that if you spend too much time re-living "the moment" it becomes larger than life. You make it bigger by all of the effort you spend thinking and rethinking and analyzing and reanalyzing. I have decided that the "what could I have done differently" stops becoming effective when it isn't about affecting change in the future.

And I want to live life looking forward (even if it with a big large boot that makes me look helpless).

September 28, 2008

At the Heart of it


A ride where you get to be inside an artichoke...this is Chase's heaven on earth.

September 26, 2008

Offensive Odors

I have a very sensitive nose. If there is a noxious perfume within a mile radius, I am sneezing and my eyes are watering. I have actually tried to search out a perfume I can deal with - it is a life long search in which I have been fairly unsuccessful (oh, except my Jo Malone phase - that was lovely).

But the point is, I don't like many smells. That offensive odor that comes seeping out of manholes especially on a cold morning where the smell has a shape, the pungent urine smell that finds its home near the end of subway platforms, the strange smell that comes from the Bay at certain tides--what is that?, the skunk that continues to remind us of his life--long, long after his death (I guess he died fighting), the stench from a disposal that wasn't turned on (woops - my bad). But the smell that is the worst is the day-after food-in-car smell. You bring something home: Chinese, Rotisserie Chicken, McDonalds, whatever. And then you get in the car the next day, and it is still there. The smell that once was. That smell, I loathe.

Oh dear, suddenly the smells I am writing about seems to be overtaking me. My throat is itchy, my nose needs rubbing. It's like reading Perfume all over again (Paris was one stinky city back in the day). I am wanting to cleanse these thoughts; after I mince garlic I pour lemon juice on my hand. So, that's what I'd do. I'll end with the "less than" smells...less offensive than the ones I've mentioned...the cleansing, fresh, delicious scents. Grapefruit Juice. Tide. Babies After Baths. Lime Blossoms. Rising Bread Dough. Almond Extract. Ahh, much better.

September 24, 2008

My Mom


My mom recently had a birthday. I collected thoughts from loved ones and this is what I wrote about her...


The art of finding sea glass is more complicated than it seems. The first task is finding your spot. If you are at our very own Pebble Beach, you’ll dismiss your shoes and sink your feet down into the rocks – deep into the heart of it. You can’t just reach in your hand and pull out a perfect turquoise oval, you must begin a mini excavation. In fact, the process of sifting and sorting is slow. It takes sharp eyes and a patient search. But when you find the stone that has been worn smooth by friction and age, you hold in your hand a true treasure.

This is the art I learned from my mother. But with all things in our natural world, if we look closely we can see that a true principle can be applied everywhere.

I have learned to from you how to find; truth, primarily. I have learned that looking and finding is a rewarding process. That time, itself, mustn’t be rushed. I have learned that great rewards are worth the struggle.

To a mother who has made struggle elegant, and yet always so real, I thank you. Your real is such a beautiful thing. Beautiful in the way you roll around on the trampoline, beautiful in the way you get caught up in the Yahoo Ocean painting, beautiful in the way you hold a leaf blower (or the way it pushes you and you hang on), beautiful in the leaves you press between glass, beautiful in the way you infuse a story with vigor, beautiful in the way you listen and love. You are a beautiful treasure. Love, Ang

September 23, 2008

Trophy Generation

I've been told, not directly, but clearly, that I am a part of the trophy generation. You know, the generation that got trophies for showing up. We'd pay our money, get a jersey, and by the last game we would have our trophy. Win, loose, who cares -- we had good self-esteem.

But the point being made to me, was that we (yes, I played AYSO, and yes, I got many a trophy) are a generation of less actual skill. There is less true accomplishment on the piano, the classroom, or even the soccer field. That we feel so good about the part we give, we feel as if though we master a skill earlier than we really do.

Now, I don't know if I agree or disagree. The jury is still out. But this is what I know. I took an intense literature class in college. One in which we were reading a lot of Renaissance Literature and for the final we had to identify the author of different passages. Everyone in my class failed miserably and Professor Young was dumbfounded. We literally had a conversation in class about what had happened. He had resurrected a lesson plan from fifteen years earlier and decided to follow the syllabus with us. We seemed to have similar discussion, have insight and comprehension. He had no idea we weren't on par. And in the end we couldn't go the distance. He, without so many words, told us that we were not as smart as older classes - or as hard working - we just assumed we were getting it and weren't putting in the time. Yikes.

I also know that I played soccer last night and had the greatest time in my life. The team we were supposed to play forfeited and we ended up playing a pick-up game with any and all of the full-time indoor soccer-ites. Only a few of them spoke English, and I resurrected my Spanish - falling in love with Dolores and Sylvia (loving, by the way, to say my v's as b's again). Shouting, al lado and al dentro...scoring like crazy and just playing better because I was having so much fun. At one point, I stole the ball from our own Ronaldinho and the crowd cheered for me - people I didn't know who were getting into the game and respecting my play. I felt so good. Happy. I was so happy. And perhaps had I not gotten those trophies I didn't earn, I wouldn't have been having such fun. Perhaps...

September 20, 2008

GOOOOAL

James made his first goal in his soccer game today. He beamed and jumped and put two fists in the air! I am so proud of him.

September 19, 2008

Supercalifragilisticexpialidocious

Awhile back, I offered up a double dare (no slime machine, but still fun). Today, I want to throw out a new one. So, I've decided that Supercalifragilisticexpialidocious is quite the under used word. Its the biggest word, we've ever heard...and of course, you should use it carefully because it can change your life...but today I simply dare you to use it. Drop it into a sentence and it will spruce it right up! I double dare you.

September 17, 2008

Nobody Told Me

Nevada should be blown off the face of the earth (and the salt flats for that matter).

This isn't exactly my sentiment, but the thought that runs through my head whenever I drive from California to Utah (with Grandparents who lived there and now siblings, it is just a reality). You drive along I-80 fighting the head nod, and the droopy eye syndrome. You roll down your windows, sing Blues Traveller at the top of your lungs, you maybe even try to remember all 50 states and state capitals (Massachusetts - how could I have forgotten you). And all the while you drink your Coke -- to stay awake of course.

For me, Coke drinking isn't regular - In fact, I don't like sodas at all. They seem crazy sweet and way too carbonated for my taste. I've always called myself a purist, because water is my beverage of choice. But I have friends that like the 40 ounces in any form they can. I never got it. It never seemed to keep me that awake - and it couldn't be for the Diet Cokey taste.

But then yesterday happened: a combination of little sleep and lots to do and a headache on top. And why I thought of a Coke, I'll never know. But at about one it seemed like my only option. I couldn't stop 'til I had one. And like magic, my headache and my droopy eyes left. So, why didn't anyone tell me about the magic? I'll I can think about it getting myself another Coke (although I still don't like the taste).

September 15, 2008

Artichokes


This morning at Borrones, Chase made a declaration. "I love these artichoke waffles."
You see, Chase's favorite food as late is the artichoke. But, truth be told, it is the butter he is dipping them in. He tried crab a few weeks back and said, "I like this, it tastes like artichokes." But it isn't the artichoke, it is the butter. So when asked his favorite food, his answer elicits an ahh--what a great eater. But my ears hear the truth: My favorite food is butter.

September 14, 2008

Foreign Affairs

This is what I heard, after a thud, thud, thud stampede down the hall:
"If you don't give me Brazil, I'll rearrange the features on your face."

My sweet James wanted a puzzle piece Chase had swiped and then thrown into the darkness under the couch.

September 12, 2008

Empty Up Top


I'm afraid it has happened and isn't going to change. Yesterday, I went to the grocery store for the basics: 1% milk, lactose free milk, bread...you get the idea. But, there was one item on my list that I couldn't forget: celery. I HAD to get celery. It was the one item we needed for dinner, and the main reason that I got in my car. But with my car full of bags of groceries and about a block from home it hit me: I've forgotten the celery. So, either I am missing a celery-size piece from my brain or else I'm loosing my short term memory. Can I blame "mommy brain" -- I don't think so. I think that each moment my mind is slowly turning to cream of wheat, no matter what I read, or what I do. I walk into a room and think to myself, you needed something in here, what was it? It then takes another ten minutes before I remember. I am sadly running on about half a cylinder...the attic is dusty and there is definitely no light on. And as I write, the only image I can think of is that empty headed scarecrow (he was a friendly bloke, though). And I keep singing this: "I've got no brain to hold me down" ...a song NOT from Wizard of Oz. In fact, it is from Pinocchio. And he is singing about freedom, "I've got no STRINGS to hold me down." Brain, String, Whatever. Something is up there, but at times I simply wonder what is to become of me. Perhaps just seven and eight grocery trips in one outing...

September 9, 2008

Lazy Susan

I think that one of the greatest inventions ever is the Lazy Susan. It is in the shape of the wheel, but I am certain that wheel has gotten way more attention...rolling around on every car, showing off, frankly. But Susan is much more quiet, humble, really. And now that I am not reaching into the dark and never-ending abyss that is the corner cupboard, but rather spinning Miss Susan to see the baking powder, salt, Nesquick I am happy again. I never loose my dear friend almond extract, now. Thank you, Suze.

But, I think that most people are missing out on how much a Lazy Susan can do. For example, when my kids were little, I had two Lazy Susans in their bedroom. After a move, they were too big for the new cupboards, but I couldn't part with them. After a week or two, they proved to be the best toy we had. It was a toy facilitator. We would line up the Little People, and then spin away. The slow spin keeps the children standing, a fast one sends them flying. And if you put something right in the middle, it will stay put, regardless of how fast you are spinning Susan. I know, you may be wondering if I am being serious, but I am. It is really one of the best toys around - kids would come over just to play with it.

Anyhow, my final thought, why oh why do we call poor Susan lazy? She isn't, plain and simple.

Well, I'm off to spin my Busy Susan.
Cheerio.

September 8, 2008

Remember


I found this picture, and immediately wanted to kiss James' four year old cheeks and scoop my barefoot one year old up into my arms. I want to, somehow, go back and make sure I was really living every moment. Because the truth is, I feel like I am prone to forgetting. My world is busy with the now. For example, this morning, when the clock was chiming eight o'clock Chase exclaimed, "The clock is telling us good morning!" His excitement was enchanting and in that moment I think every age is my favorite age, especially this one (whatever this is at the moment). But I don't want to forget. So, as of this moment I can't decide if time is my friend or my enemy. But as for today, my mantra will be: remember.

September 5, 2008

Vacant

A good friend told me my blog is a vacant expression of what it once was. I used to air out the truth as I saw it and now I merely write on the periphery my own life. I put just enough out there to be safe, proof that I am indeed living. But not enough to expose myself. But occasionally I feel the urge to say more. Don't get me wrong. It isn't that I want to write more substantial thoughts, it is actually the trivial stuff I've been holding close to the chest. Like yesterday, when I spent ever so long contimplating how "Monte Carlo" had become a cheap synonym for Vegas. And somehow the place Monte Carlo made me think of the 70's and Farrah in all her hair flipping glory. It made me think of old Bond films and the colors yellow and brown. And how, although these things are cool once again, Monte Carlo won't be. Maybe the final nail in its coffin was having a car named after it (although the casino wasn't much help either). But then my final thought was that if I had a chance to actually go to Monte Carlo, I would go, and I would probably love it. And that ended the flip and the flop and a tangent no one really wants to know about. Yes, this is really how I think.

Bella Donna and Hydrangea



I've been doing flowers again...
now if I could only take pictures like her or her.

September 4, 2008

Fall means Football

Chase kept turning to me saying, "Mom, this is my FIRST football game." He loved every minute of it. Of course, he was busy watching the Stanford Band and the band's mascot (a tree)...he danced and danced and ate a licorice longer than him. James loved it too, but less for the music and more for the stats. His eyes never left the jumbo tron or the field. He was reading names, memorizing stats, and filling me in on anything I was missing (like the Quarterback's name - I'm not great at details or sports in general). Isn't it funny that so much fun can be had in such different ways: James the sport, Chase the atmosphere, and for me it was the company. Go Stanford!



September 3, 2008

Hold Your Breath



I had a long "to do" list for the summer...but in truth, it was a "want to do" list. And one of the things I wanted to do the most was paint the Great Barrier Reef with the boys. It was the last thing we did before school started. Chase ended up naming it the Yahoo Ocean, the inspiration hit half way through the painting of the blue background. James carefully made sure the humu humu and the parrot fish had all the proper markings (his hiding puffer fish is adorable too). And Grammy ended up doing the majority of the fish.

Here they are swimming with their fish friends. I swam too, jumping in with a shout, "Yahooooo!" I just couldn't resist a refreshing swim in an exotic reef.

September 2, 2008

The Hills ARE Alive

The other night, we were watching Sound of Music (my attempt to watch something other than a cartoon with my children) and by the time Maria had done her spins on the hill and begun to sing, "The hills are alive..." James had already ran and found one of our favorite books: Giggle, Giggle, Quack. He turned to this page with triumph. His little eyes twinkled as he showed me. He understand it on a deeper level and loved it. He kept saying, "Moosic, Mom, they are watching The Sound of Moosic - get it?!"

August 19, 2008

Crawdad



craw·dad (krô′dad′) - noun - Dialectal crayfish
thanks uncle josh for opening a new world

July 22, 2008

Oh, Boy!



My sister, Emily, had a baby!

Weston Joshua
(isn't he as cute as can be stretched out, lying in the sun)
Congrats, Mimi and Josh!

So, here's my thought: I am officially an Aunt now...or an Auntie or another nickname of sorts, and I am very new to this. And I am wondering what it is an Aunt does...any thoughts? I know this much, I've got to get out to see him soon!

July 21, 2008

A Snowcone Head


I was organizing some of my pictures, and had almost forgotten about this one of James on the last day of school. I can say, that more than anything, this pictures evoked in me the need for a snow cone. And because there isn't a snow cone stand anywhere in the vicinity (what's up with that?) I am off to crush ice in my blender and add a little magical raspberry Torani.

July 15, 2008

Good Luck in Beijing





Guess who was standing next to me at the checkout counter today? Dara Torres!

I couldn't help myself, I had to wish her luck in Beijing -- of course, I whispered it, so as not to attract attention. But, I couldn't wipe the smile off my face as I left. I found myself contemplating this woman making waves in the middle of her life. In a world in which we seem to worship pre-pubescent girls and their bodies and their youth, it is refreshing to see the flip side. The beauty of age and wisdom and life experience.

(If you aren't following the Olympics, she is the 41 year old athlete who is swimming faster then ever, making the team for the forth or fifth time - and by the by, I just can't wait for the Olympics!)





Photo: Marc Serota for The New York Times

July 3, 2008

Dressed in Black

There is something about the dressed in black, Mia Micheals numbers...this week's was awesome. But, there are also amazing ones from the past.

Remember Allison dancing to Annie Lennox with white Ivan that we didn't know could dance

and

That jump that Lacey did with Cameron

and

Even Danny had a dressed in black number

anyhow, here is Joshua and Catee...


June 27, 2008

Bleeding Heart

I LOVE this show and LOVED this dance!

But, I don't think Mary and Nigel were complimentary enough...only Adam got it right!

June 14, 2008

Car-ni-val


The Nativity Carnival is an institution. It comes once a year, and has for the last twenty-eight years (or, so says the recycled poster I have grown so fond of). Anyhow, I am afraid that the older my eyes get, the more they look at the squeaky iron rides with worry instead of excitement. And when I bought my boys cotton candy, all I could think of was Templeton running free at the fair in Charlotte's Web. I had to keep telling myself to be fun, "Be fun, Angie, not a kill-joy...well, try...smile...laugh" But, alas, the "fun" house, was nothing like the "I got chills, they're multiplyin' " experience Sandy and Danny knew in the Greese end-of-school carnival extravaganza. Even black leather pants and the jumpingest hand-jive with the carnies-themselves, wouldn't have distracted me from the need that never ceased...Purell. And thank goodness for the bath I took in it when we left the carnival. Oh, and for the record, we passed on the ferris wheel...but only because I'm not thirteen and making out with my twelve year-old boyfriend.

June 10, 2008

Verbatim

Chase. Even if you stick
an ax in my head I
will still love you. Nothing can
break my love for you. My
love for you grows a lot
every day! XOXOXOXOXO
XOXO Love James

I don't even know where to begin my commentary; with ax or "nothing can break my love for you"...I love James.

June 8, 2008

Off-Off Broadway or Jazz Hands


I've been having so much fun singing and dancing and being down right silly as a cast member in a musical production. Here we are back stage in our "Yes, We Have No Bananas" costume - [side note about the fruit on my Carmen Miranda hat...Chase was hoping for fleshy peach but came up empty, but he didn't give up and tried again on the banana resulting in two deep bite marks].

The final show was Friday night...and I'm going to miss rehearsals, and being surrounded by people who really can sing and dance. But, I'm crossing my fingers we can take it on the road...Assisted Living Communities here we come!

June 5, 2008

Suckers


I've been spending time with the tomato plants that are in the backyard - they are James' actually. You see a few weeks back we each chose something to plant in the garden and have since been watching them grow. Chase's strawberries have been fruitful, and my dill delightful (the carrots, not so much).

James tomatoes are green and growing and take a lot of work. Every few days I remove the suckers. (A sucker is just a young leaf/stem that develops between two tomato stems and a mature leaf - right in the v. If you allow a sucker to grow, it will eventually produce fruit, but it will reduce the size of fruit on the vine above it because it intercepts nutrients coming up from the roots.)

As I snap off those selfish suckers I release the smell of summer, but can't help but think about the process. And, as always, the metaphor jumps out at me...the need to prune the things out of our lives that suck too much energy. The unimportant things that sometimes seem so important.

May 27, 2008

No Name



Even without a name, he is pretty cute. We are having a lot of fun with this new puppy!

May 26, 2008

The Language of Cherries

We stopped to buy cherries at a fruit stand Not knowing the proper cherry language, I just bought a 7 dollar box. But, the man waiting in line behind me, quietly asked if there were any tartarian cherries left (he whispered the reverent request). I entered the conversation to know more, and learned that they can't be sold in stores because they don't hold up well, but they are sweeter and yummier. Sadly, he got the last box, but gave me one to try.

I'm now on the lookout for a cherry stand where I can ask the right question. Do you have any tartarians?

May 23, 2008

Another Wedding


But, what do you do when you aren't in love with the bride's favorite flower?
You find some awesome green flowers to look like foliage (you are good at finding green flowers),
you grow some grass,

and you just do the best you can...

May 20, 2008

Sharks - A Way of Life

Sharks are less a facsination and more a way of life for my boys. James sleeps with a tiger shark, while Chase sleeps with a hammerhead. They know the scary story of Uncle Pat being bumped by a hammerhead in the dark of the night, fixing a broken propellar under the boat. They know the scarier story of Uncle Pat being circled and charged by a shark on the prey. But these only seem to heighten the shark excitement.

James knows the various kinds: cookie cutter sharks to blue sharks. So, when James' class went on a field trip to the Marine Science Institute and he got to touch a leopard shark...well, there could be nothing better. The proof (to my horror, and personal fear):


May 17, 2008

Landslide

Do you remember being a teenager? Everything seemed so real. You would lay on your bed and listen to lyrics of a song, and feel like someone else knew what it was like to live. And you would sing "These are the Days" with all the ferocity and intention of a fifteen year old...but maybe you were just singing because you actually knew the lyrics for once. Somehow, it felt like playing catch up...but even though there was so much out there to learn, you still felt like you knew it all. And when an adult (much worse your parent) tried to tell you that they knew what it felt like to be your age, you knew they didn't. The couldn't. And you would roll your inner eyes, and know that what you were feeling was different - and bigger - and real.

Well, this morning I heard Landslide by Fleetwood Mac, and remembered discovering this song. Loving this song. But, as I listened to it fifteen years later, I realized that I finally understood it. I know what a Landslide feels like, and feel like I've been asking, "Oh, mirror in the sky/What is love/Can the child within my heart rise above/Can I sail thru the changing ocean tides/Can I handle the seasons of my life?"

I felt it, and got it. Isn't it funny how it takes life, the actual living of it, to really get it. And that all of my teenage angst was just the start. I wonder what the end feels like?

May 13, 2008

The Truth

This morning Chase said, "Mom, sometimes you smell good, and sometimes you smell bad."

May 7, 2008

Fi*lo*li

Fight for a just cause; Love your fellow man; Live a good life.”



Walking the gardens of Filoli (an old estate by Crystal Springs and not far from home), I found myself renewed with each step. There is something magical about a place that transform time and circumstance. Not to mention the fact that I have fallen head over heals for the tree peonies - I've always loved peonies - but tree peonies are masterpieces I had not yet witnessed. Anyhow, I love that the orignal owner of this magical place decided to use a name with meaning. I always thought it was some old surname, but how happy to find out what it really means.

April 24, 2008

A Frock and a Frightening Penguin




Which of these two cards makes you laugh harder? I am partial to The Penguin of Death...
Edward Monkton is a genuis!

April 23, 2008

HobNobs in My Bed

My sister stepped off the plane bearing gifts of goodness...HobNobs to be precise. And it didn't take Chase long to fall in love with these British cookies. So in love, that he ate them high and ate them low and eventually landed in bed to finish consuming them.

Considering that most three-year olds manage to get some food inside their actual mouth, it is not hard to remember the truth: most of it ends up crumbled. And in this case, crumbled into the bed. So, essentially, Chase created a Cookie Bed without even the slightest intention.

Now, I know it may be argued that crumbs in a bed are the most irritating friends to play hide-and-seek with (you see, they want to play when I want to sleep)...but, I will suggest that a HobNob crumb is of another variety. In fact, a HobNob crumb is the very kind you DO want to consort with.

I'll take cookies in my bed over sand (and I know there are those who could probably sleep in a bed made of sand). And I'll definitely take HobNobs however I can.

April 1, 2008

April Fool


Last night, I quietly emptied all of the cereal. I filled the Chex box with Legos, the Raisin Bran with marbles, and the Crispix with dried pasta. This morning when I poured the boys their cereal Chase got the giggles and couldn't stop. James just kept staring, confused; he even tasted the dried pasta. But, then I yelled, "April Fool's!" and welcomed the day that is sure to be filled with teasing and tricks.

March 25, 2008

As Still As it Gets



Taking Easter Pictures seems to get harder and harder as my wiggly boys would simply rather wiggle. They look too grown up this year.

March 12, 2008

Leprechauns Beware


James has designed and built the most astonishing Leprechaun trap. I'm not sure what will ultimately lure the little gold-seeking scavangers:
  • the house built out of Lucky Charms?
  • the TWO rainbows carefully arched over the glitter walk way?
  • the gold coins hanging from the ceiling?
  • all of the green paint and green felt?
  • perhaps the "Leprecauns Welcome (sic)" sign?
  • or maybe the miniature Liberty Bell he sculpted and shaped (because it is made out of gold)?

I'm personally thinking the Liberty Bell will be the biggest draw. But whatever brings those Leprechauns, they better watch out. Because inside this glittering house is a jail cell, cleverly disguised as an "elevator to the gold."

February 28, 2008

Tears

I was late picking up James - it is the hardest thing in the world for him. I couldn't help but remember something I wrote a year ago:

Crocodile Tears
Today at gymnastics, James landed funny and twisted his ankle. His coach brought him an ice pack - and I watched as he tried to hold back the tears. His little lips were quivering, and he was trying to avoid eye contact with anyone, but he looked up and caught my eye. He couldn't hold it any longer - a tear or two ran down his face. But, then he looked away, trying his mightiest to be brave.

Looking at his little face, I was flooded with that feeling, trying to hold back my own tears, trying to be brave, but feeling so sad inside. I felt so much compassion - not just for his little ankle (which will be just fine) - but that he is old enough to even think about holding it in. What a tragic circumstance. When babies are distraught - there is no public awareness. They could care less about bawling, throwing tantrums, shouting out in pain. But as adults, we care...or perhaps we want to avoid questions. Questions like, "Are you alright?" Its kind of a silly question - obviously, if someone has crossed the threshold from trying-to-be-brave and is actually welling up there is something wrong. I have made a solemn promise to myself - that I will avoid this question. That I will instead sympathetically smile, give someone that knowing touch, just change the subject and not bring it up unless they want to, or simply say, "I'm sorry." These are the things that help the sad two year old (and I guess me).

I will now start mourning for James - I hate the idea that he has to become so publicly aware - isn't he too young?! I wish we could all be raw and real - but sometimes that doesn't help heal the hurt either. Sometimes just making it through until we are in a safe place to release our burdens - in James' case the car ride home - is the best way. Thank goodness for safe places.

February 27, 2008

Keeping it Real

A friend asked: Is there anything you don't do?

My response with a crooked smile: Shower...

The truth is there is so much that I don't do - I usually rush around getting just the bare minimum done. Lunch was made 2 minutes before we had to leave for school. I kept my eyes closed in bed while pretending to play cars with my three year old for at least a half an hour this morning. I still haven't brushed my drying hair (although I did shower). But, although I fall short, I keep chugging (or does that little blue engine puff)? Anyhow, I keep on keeping on.

February 26, 2008

Meet Anthurium


When I am working with flowers, they somehow become my friends. Beautiful Cymbidium Orchids I nickname Cyms. And I couldn't help but refer to my sweet delicate friend the Lisianthus, as Lizzie. But, I didn't always know the names of the flowers as well as I do now. So, I thought I would introduce you to Anthurium. I have never worked with him before - but he is enchanting. The pink version looks desperately fake, but the green is such a wonderful color. It added a wonderful dimension to the largest arrangement we did for the wedding. Here are a few wedding shots - it was lovely. And I couldn't have done it without the help of her or her.

11 Tables with a version of this

11 smaller tables had these
(you know i love flowers in water and the grass turned out nicely)

Can you find my friend, Anthurium?
Cheerio.

February 25, 2008

Notes on a Disney Die-Hard


I wouldn't call myself a die hard. But, when the rain came and we stayed I felt like the Disneyland elite. I want to go on the record and say: a wet Disney is still a magic Disney.
James keeps saying, "It seems so long ago...it was like a dream." He walked around with his mouth open the first three hours. Every ride was the best. But by the end of the day, he had proclaimed Space Mountain as his favorite. He loves speed and feeling weightless (I think my stomach is falling out, but he loves the drops).
Chase, on the other hand, liked the pool at the hotel the most. But, that hasn't stopped him from talking about the Matterhorn and the Yetti non-stop. "You go on a bobsled, and the Yetti ate so many strawberries in his body that his eyes turned red."



Cheerio.